Fletch, try to identify someone who's doing it right. I tried to copy a couple guys in my conference (GNWAC), and learn from them. If you are going to run the triangle, look at the cores of the recruits those better coaches go after.
I love the triangle, but I couldn't figure out how to recruit for it. I'm about halfway through converting ASU to the flex because I feel like I can find flex/FCP players.
It took about 3-4 seasons in DII for the light to "go on" for me. Try to schedule similar RPI schools in OOC, don't look to far up or down. Gameplanning and tempo make a difference when you run into guys like reinsel - who are good recruiters and game-planners.

Also... enjoy DII, in a lot of ways its more fun!