Unfortunately, people die every day. Some of the nonsense coming from both sides of the aisle above is uncalled for. Someone makes a snarky comment, the best thing you can do is ignore it, as the only thing you'll get back is an endless argument about nothing. You know how you stand, where is the need to try and defend why you haven't moved on? Who cares what someone else thinks?
I, myself, think it's tragic when someone dies young. It was a single car accident in erff's case. Who knows what happened? Who really cares? The fact is he's gone. He's not the first person that I've only known only via an internet forum to have died tragically. It happens. I've moved on, because I didn't know him all that well, except for playing against him in several HBD leagues. He was a good player, and it's a big loss. Everyone mourns in their own way and for as long as they want. You're entitled to do that. But, when someone makes a snarky comment, ignore it...because the only person that's going to be hurt is you.