Your reputation is how you are viewed as a coach. Factors that may impact your rep include - recruiting violations, rescinding a player's scholarship that you didn't recruit, breaking promises, having a player quit, and/or having a player declared academically ineligible.
Prestige is how your team is viewed relative to other teams. Your coach rating can have an effect here. For example, when changing teams you might take over a team with a C prestige but that could possibly change to a C+ or C- depending on your prior success and experience. As jdno said, prestige carries far more weight in recruiting than reputation.