I would suggest not discussing recruiting during recruiting, it takes a little effort at first, then gets really easy
if I were to reply to seble, I would simply ask for a clarification of what communication is or is not allowed during recruiting. Technically, I would guess any sitemail about recruiting can be grounds for a warning.
If you really want to get him and others going, ask about when a coach has two teams in the same division, d1 for example, he by definition passes information from team to team about intentions and also has entered into an implicit non-compete agreement.
I say this only to stir the pot, as I really don't think there is anything wrong with having 2 d1 teams, but certainly the level of your communication is not near the level of a coach having two teams.
In d2/d3, I often FSS near half the country by the time I am done if I need a big class, having 2 d2/d3 teams for the same coach is probably even trickier in terms of fair play
In the old days (tarek days), I used to recruit for conference mates when they couldn't make it, not bragging or anything, but it helped the conference - the game was quite a bit easier then, I used to see 15-20 recruits I would glady take when looking, now I am lucky to find 1.
But then again, in the old days, from what I understand a couple of elite conferences used to draft. I was just starting in d3 at the time, I am pretty sure one conference pretty much communicated on the CC who was taking who. There was a little BS going on, a little anger, and lots of humor from what I recall. I used to read their CC frequently, it was full of interesting tips.
anyhow, what you did was no big deal, but if you want to be safe, don't communicate any recruiting info, via sitemail or CC.