"But it's my team, I should be able to do whatever I want with it!"
But to your original question:
1) Read the manual
2) Find multiple mentors on the
list. As you can see from the MikeT-csherwood banter, not everyone operates their teams using the same way of thinking.
3) Ask plenty of questions, whether in your world's world chat or here on the forums. When it comes to the forums, q
uestions are generally answered promptly and accurately. However,
complaining that something doesn't work like you think it should or
whining that you did something which resulted in unintended consequences will only invite sarcasm and ridicule.
Good luck!