I've had a freshman accept my RS 14 seasons in a row without a WE drop, and I've never used the RS button. Here are what I see as the keys to getting accepted:
- Don't play your target RS at all in the first exhibition game. Leave him off your depth chart altogether, and set his fatigue / mins target to the minimum.
- It's much easier to get a target to accept the RS if he's one of 3 or more at his listed position. So for example, if you already have a soph and a junior listed as PG's (even if you don't play them at PG), getting an incoming freshman who's listed as a PG to accept becomes very easy. Players are much more likely to fight it if they're the only one at their listed position, or only have one other player.
- Put the RS on them after the first game. 90% of the time, I get an easy accept right then. A couple of times, I've seen a modest WE drop (always less than 10 pts). In that case, I usually remove the RS, sit them again for the 2nd game, and then re-apply. In the last 14 seasons at D3, I've never had the player reject it the 2nd time.