This topic is cool, if you're sitemailing a friend/coach. But if this is real griping, I don't understand it. You put yourself in every situation here.
"i put 75 AP on a guy".... you chose to do that. If you're in a pinch, one where you may not be able to get enough players for your liking, be aware!!! Don't put 75 on one guy! Put 50 and 25 on two lesser talent. Project guys with green growth. Just examples.
if you are going to respond "but I don't want lesser talent"... of course not! Who does? But you're in a situation that you need to handle the best way for you, to keep yourself happy!
If you're going to say "but I needed 7 guys".... well don't put yourself in that position! Balance your classes better, to prepare the best that you can (being aware that EEs happen!!).
I really don't understand this at all. There's lots of things to gripe about in this game. EEs being a main issue. But not your form of the problem. You created your situation, as do each and everyone of us!