Something doesn't sound normal about this. But regardless, once recruiting artfully begins, you'll be able to know the circumstances by clicking "recruit" to get to the recruiting tools for that player. If the box is available to "offer scholarship", then yes you will need to click that. If the box says "withdraw scholarship offer" then you do not need to do anything (if you want the player), because the offer has been submitted.
Also you can check the status of the recruit now, but looking at the icons on the player profile. If you see a green swirly looking icon, that is the scholarship. And it has already processed. Or you can click "history" on the recruit profile, and see what actions have been applied and are active. Hope this helps