I will take a probably unpopular view, and say that I believe this does fall under Collusive Behavior as defined in the
Fair Play guidelines - which might be more an indictment on the guidelines than this particular activity...
Collusive transactions
Collusion includes any act that supports bad, deceitful or illegal behavior agreed upon by two or more users or attempted by a single user. Here are a few examples:
- Discussing the pursuit of a recruit with another coach, including who is pursuing him and money that might have been spent.
- Sharing Future Stars Scouting (FSS) information between multiple teams
- Scheduling a non-conference game against an alias team (i.e. team owned by same owner in a different conference and more than 1,000 miles away). Exhibition games are permitted in this situation, however.
- Any clear throwing of a game (normally indicated by massive lineup changes or settings changes)
- Specifically targeting another coach is prohibited. This includes, but is not limited to, focusing on recruits a particular coach is pursuing in order to steal them or force the coach to overspend.
- Attempting to persuade another user to participate in a collusive effort (only the initiator would be at fault unless agreed upon by other user)
This would be an act undertaken by a single user and, by the first given example, discusses who is pursuing a player (or in this case, that while someone was previously, now no one is considering the player). Under these guidelines as written, it seems to clearly qualify...
Which isn't to say I'd think you were doing anything wrong per se (although one could argue that no other coaches got a heads up from you, so that is an unfair advantage over others? I dunno...) but simply that the guidelines are ambiguous, perhaps intentionally to encourage people to just avoid all communications around recruiting, which would probably make arbitrating these non-existent discussions easier maybe...