Agrreed, dalter. So? That is not the point you made. You made a general point, with an example, and I specified on it. Nothing wrong with that, but you have to admit you jumped the gun saying what you did. We both were saying that you have to mitigate the benefits of Oregon with the surrouding mid-majors, I just further definded what the mitigating factors would be. It's not a factor of being right, it's about giving the guy everything he needs to know to make an informed desision. You gave an accurate assessment, but it was incomplete, there is nothing wrong with fine tuning and not every thread needs to be a challenge to your HD knowledge. You know your stuff, but others can refine it and that should be okay. It's not a challenge to your knowledge to have it clarified.
What we have here is a failure of communication. For whatever reason, and it may be my fault, you decided I was contridictory or OT, when in reality I was refining a statement. NOT a big deal, but when people try to score "credibility" points, the community at-large loses. And that is what you did, jumping in with the your "YOU ARE WRONG" attitude, like many others, when you never even ask for claffication on the point you are conflicted about. It's just about you and your rightness. That doesn't help anyone. All I was doing was adding to your own assessment, but you decided it was more beneficial to the new person to agrue a refinement of your presumably infallable initial statement, which is, you have to admit, more than slightly arrogant concidering.
Perhaps I was not clear enough, I don't know, but there are far too many users willing to be confrontational about the symantics of posts to make conversations useful. That goes for everyone. If someone makes an unclear post, ask for clarification instead of assuming your veiwpoint and being negative. Calling them inept. Assuming some sort of thread authority. If someone has a contrary view, LISTEN (key point) and make a counter arguement instead of claiming absolute knowledge and arrogant dissmissal. THAT is how new people can be helped, and how civil people debate issues. Complain all you want about rewards and tell all the tales you wish about helping people, but nit-picking here is just as detrimental as anything WIS can implement.
Hey if someone is dead wrong about a fact, let them know, but you don't hove to be a jerk about it. Do you? Does that retain coaches? It may make you feel better, but for all the talk of teaching, there are far too many vets making a mockery of an question a new person has here in the forums.That is not consistant with what is expressed as the community ideal.
The whole rewards thread was about how vets can help new people. We/You can help by not engaging in one-upsmanship. This inane need to prove that you know more than the next guy about the topic. If a person is dead wrong, yes, call that out, but reserve that for necessity and be tactful. As I said, ask for clarification instead of denouncing. THAT is how community is bred. Belittling someone doesn't bring them back, and reserve the nit-picking to things that are really important.
You want to build a new HD? Then quit sniping. That is a general comment, not to dalter. For all the talk of helpfulness, there is a deep vien of confrontation that doen't help fostering new people.
The bottom line? Don't be arrogant and be helpful. THAT is what will help HD grow. You can be helpful to a single confrencemate, but that last exchange can reach all worlds. Do we want to score "I'm better than you" points, or do we want to engratiate new people and make them feel like we are a community and can converse as equals? I think so.
Sorry for the long post, but I'm just tired of all this BS and chestbeating. You want to teach, then teach. You want to be an online know-it-all whose opinions cannot be boached, then you'd better be right 100% of the time and you'd better be man enough to admit when you are not. You lead by example, and being adversarial in the forums sets a pace.
Done here. Will still strive to help when I can and I know I can be wrong. Can you say the same?