Duke - I get your frustration. I have a mid-major team with a C+ prestige. It took awhile to learn to exercise patience because of it. For too many seasons I jumped in early on player's that looked awesome. The problem is that they look awesome to everyone, including the bigger boys. When I have two open slots, I typically now select the player I want that is at or just above my station in life watch for a few cycles. If a major conference team does not pick up on them I go all in. If I lose the player, no big deal, but I have maximized my effort. Picking that one player is key. The better he looks, the better he looks to everyone else.
When I have 6 open scholarships, I tend to follow dacj501's model. I identify who I like, put a little in to get considered, and then hold onto my stash to see what happens. I don't commit much early.