FDIAH has done plenty of study.
No. "I'll let you have the last word because you know I'm right" is the lamest way to attempt to end an argument.
It's far too complicated to go into too deeply but I think it's poorly thought out. And force feeding it to America was a bad idea.
I'm sure your wife was right and you should just be thankful that there's a woman who has stuck it out with you for 20 years.