Behind closed doors, yes. If you don't think the "old money" isn't dropping n-bombs and claiming that Obama's class warfare is designed to hit them in their pockets while funding his social programs, you're being a bit naive. We've come a long way wrt race relations but there's still an element, both black and white, that believes nothing can overcome skin color.
Meh. Religious people take themselves too seriously. If you don't want to sing the song, don't sing that song. No one is going to notice you standing there and not singing. And, if they do, tell them why.