And does "that time" really stop guys?
I dated a girl for a while who referred to that as crime scene sex, which I found to be hysterical and a well-adjusted attitude to have about it.
Sure, that may cause a man to lose his courage to go downtown, but otherwise? What's the big deal? (Note: Considering the man has been made aware of it ahead of time. Nobody should be expected to handle that kind of surprise well.)