No, I understand reality, which is something that you have proven to struggle with. I'm not going to sugarcoat reality to save feelings. Fat people are fat because they are undisciplined. It's rare to see a truly fat person that is also wealthy. People who are self-driven are usually self-driven in all aspects of life. People are lazy, undisciplined, and lack self control usually lack it in all areas of life. This is reality. Hopefully one day you will realize the truth.