Posted by bds9992 on 10/8/2020 9:17:00 PM (view original):
Posted by jpevans31 on 10/8/2020 9:10:00 PM (view original):
Posted by bds9992 on 10/8/2020 3:31:00 PM (view original):
Hey Rob - do you know how happy I've been on account of not hearing from you or shmael?
Quite happy. WIS is back to being a pretty relaxing place for me, as I hope as it has been for you. Let's keep that going, eh? Let's shoot for no snark in S3. I have nothing to say to you and I hope the same is true for you.
If you truly have nothing to say to someone, don't say anything.
jp, you’re not really looking at the situation.
Robert responded to me. I continually tell him not to do that. I am noting and have noted that this thread has been copacetic when my comments weren’t responded to with snark.
There’s nothing more to it. I need you and jh to understand that because there are no other interpretations to be derived from the situation. Or you can keep doing what you’re doing, which is akin to strawmanning
Oh, no, I'm looking at the situation. You can't tell me there "are no other interpretations" because you're only looking at it from your biased pov. I'm an outsider with no skin in the game, but who sees the argument forced into the thread that's open to all in the league. As with pretty much all human interactions, there are multiple interpretations to be had. You felt he was being snarky to you, ok. I thought his comment wasn't much to get worked up about, but some people have thin skin.
So, you respond to a comment with more snark, and you bring up Ash for no good reason. That prolongs the snarky comments, and brings in someone else you know you don't get along with. That is
100% on you.
I think the initial comment you reacted to wasn't worth any blow-back from you, but for some reason you did. Sure... So, why not be a better man and just not comment back? You might be surprised how often that leads to no arguments and it all quickly fades into the past.