I don't know about any of you, but any bickering I do with the community, it's all done with a smile. I've bickered with shoe, gil, Trentonjoe a time or two, kc, mully and a few others. But then we'll turn around and have helpful sitemail communication that same day. The only one I haven't actually had helpful sitemails with is kc, and I would have no problem doing so! We just don't happen to cross paths ever in the game of HD.
Point is, I think everyone here is actually pretty cool for the most part. And I don't think the bickering is "real". It's more like having two brothers. If you have an argument with one and he hits you with a baseball bat, you know to just leave that brother alone when it comes to arguing about stuff. But the other brother, you guys always go back and forth with your arguments but you both always come back for more. So you know which one you can torment and you know which one not to.
I don't think anyone here REALLY dislikes each other. It's entertaining to debate things.